I’ve heard this for a long time … and from many sources … in one form or another: Men change after they’ve won the girl. Why do they do that? One hypothesis is that once the chase is complete, they no longer have to work at winning her attention. The hunt is over. The prize…
Read MoreMonth: May 2012
Just the Way You Are
Women are notorious for selecting men with “potential.” For some reason, we’re drawn to a project rather than to a person. My guess is that it’s part of the curse that resulted from the first couple’s disobedience in the Garden of Eden. To the woman he said, “I will make your pains in childbearing very…
Read MoreNew Seminar: Prelude to a Dance
FREE 90-Minute Seminar by Dr. Debi Smith Monday, June 18th, 7:15 pm Newport Beach, CA Are you a . . . daughter? friend? girlfriend? fiancee? wife? mother/grandmother/aunt? woman who knows a man? Have you ever . . . been puzzled by male behavior? wondered why men and boys do the things they do? wished he…
Read MoreMeditation & Blessing
It’s a good practice to meditate on God’s goodness and unmerited favor. The world would have us focus on our pain … and a wide assortment of ways to artificially numb ourselves. However, it’s not the pain that causes us problems in relationships. It’s our defensiveness against it. We just want our pain to go…
Read MoreSmart, Romantic, & Rated “G”
Are you looking for something different to do with your sweetheart this summer? Check out the Victorian Dinner Theater on June 9th, performed by Opera a la Carte! Our own 21st Century Victorian, Fred Judkins, tells us a little about the most famous duo of Victorian times . . . Sir William Gilbert and Sir…
Read MoreStep Back in Time
You are invited to join Fred & Dr. Debi and the Victorian Tea & Dance Society this Sunday at Heritage Square Museum for a 19th Century Party! May 20, 2012 12 – 5 pm 3800 Homer Street Los Angeles, CA 90031 Enjoy Victorian Dance and Parlour Games at the Perry Mansion as part of the…
Read MoreCould I Have This Dance?
httpv://youtu.be/2wagjpWtRII I’ll always remember the song they were playin’ The first time we danced and I knew As we swayed to the music and held to each other I fell in love with you [Chorus:] Could I have this dance for the rest of my life Would you be my partner every night When we’re…
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