Couples Quiz: How well are you doing as a couple? The quiz below, based on findings of marital research, can help you get an idea of how well you are doing in some vital areas of your relationship. Please indicate "yes" or "no" in regard to whether or not each of the following questions is currently true of your relationship: My partner frequently criticizes me or puts me down. I don’t feel like my partner and I are on the same team. Our disagreements often turn into ugly fights. I avoid telling my partner what I really think and/or feel. My partner tends to take things the wrong way. I sometimes fantasize about what it would be like to date or marry someone else. When we argue, one of us doesn’t want to talk about it anymore and walks away. I often feel lonely in this relationship. Please click here for Scoring Instructions. NOTE: All information provided is for general informational purposes only. It is not a substitute for a professional evaluation. If you are experiencing emotional distress, please contact a mental health professional.