Love and Respect Quiz The following was adapted from Dr. Gottman's research. Using the scale below, please rate your agreement with each of the following statements in regard to your relationship: Strongly Agree Strongly Disagree 1 2 3 4 My partner seeks out my opinions. My partner cares about my feelings. I don’t feel ignored by my partner very often. We touch each other a lot. We listen to each other. We respect each other’s ideas. We are affectionate toward one another. I feel that my partner takes good care of me. What I say counts. I am important in our decisions. There’s lots of love in our relationship. We are genuinely interested in one another. I just love spending time with my partner. We are very good friends. Even during rough times, we can be empathetic. My partner is considerate of my viewpoint. My partner finds me physically attractive. My partner expresses warmth to me. I feel included in my partner’s life. My partner admires me. Please click here for Scoring Instructions.