Neediness gets such a bum rap. As one of my mentors told me, “To say that someone is too needy is like saying they are too human.” He was right. We are all needy. We cannot survive very long without one another … or a facsimile thereof. Do you remember “Wilson,” Tom Hanks’s volleyball friend…
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My Sabbatical (sort of)
This Wednesday is August 1st, and my sabbatical begins – sort of. I’ll still be in the office and still be conducting free seminars for women about the Psychology of Men and Relationships. However, I will be cutting back on blogging in favor of hanging out in the literal (and metaphorical) “coolness” of my favorite…
Read MoreMy Dream Come True
You may have noticed that I haven’t blogged for a while. I’ve been busy regrouping. Regrouping can be a bad thing or a good thing. In my case, it’s a “God Thing.” My students at Biola University used to say that a lot, and as a professor, that phrase stuck in my mind. If we…
Read MoreThis Is Your Brain in Love
Make your marriage the best it can be by learning the secrets of proactive passion. Using the latest in brain research, This Is Your Brain in Love helps couples become Master Level Lovers by encouraging each mate to bring their healthiest, most balanced and joyful self to their marriage. Author Dr. Earl Henslin speaks to the…
Read MoreWhat Every Couple Needs to Know
The New Science of Adult Attachment & How It Can Help You Find—and Keep—Love by Anonymous Reviewer Wow. This book is such an eye-opener! I just bought it yesterday and have almost done reading it. I’ve read lots of relationship books and most of them are a combination of psycho-babble and personal opinion. This book…
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