There’s nothing more delightful than dancing with a perfect partner. A man who knows how to lead (gently and confidently) dancing with a woman who loves to follow him (without losing who she is) is a joy to behold. You are invited to join Dr. Debi on Monday, Seotenber 17th, in Newport Beach for a…
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An Invitation
If you think about it, the phrase “dance with me” is actually an invitation – a sweet request – to join together in the creation of something beautiful as a couple. These words are neither to be uttered in a demanding tone, nor with expectations that you merely do as I say. Both the request…
Read MoreExciting News!
ATTENTION!!! Thanks to the unleashed generosity of two very amazing Christian couples who have joined us in support of healthy relationships, we are reducing the cost of Dance With Me workshops on September 29 at Vanguard University! Single, dating, engaged, married … We have something for the “Hopeful Romantic” in everyone! Just Follow My Lead…
Read MoreNever Leave Your Partner Behind
In the movie Fireproof, the statement “Never leave your partner behind” was a motto of the Fire Department. Then Kirk Cameron’s character applied that to his marriage. When I refer to a couple as “partners” (and to the line in the movie) during counseling, I am thinking of the following definition. How many of the…
Read MoreIt’s Your Choice
At one time or another, we hurt the ones we love – whether we mean to or not. Sometimes we’re just being selfish – totally self-absorbed, and we don’t even realize the level of pain our actions will cause for our spouses. Whatever the reason, it simply shouldn’t happen – in a perfect world. But…
Read MoreDifferent Worldviews
No, Mark and Cathy are not from different planets. However, their biological differences (nature) and the impact of their respective life experiences (nurture) have resulted in very different ways of looking at the world … and at their relationships. It’s what you say that counts: Women were taught to talk openly about their feelings when…
Read MoreMark’s Story
Mark’s experience was quite different than Cathy’s. (For Cathy’s story, please read After the Honeymoon.) Although their honeymoon had been totally amazing, he was glad to be home from Paris. For years, one of his favorite end-of-the-day routines had been to grab a quick snack and head to the bedroom for some late-night TV. When…
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