Many couples who come to us are currently struggling with painful arguments that circle around a few key triggers and issues. Often times, just knowing that you are not alone in this can bring some relief. EFT is a structured, short-term (8-20 sessions) approach; and if it’s a good fit for you, we’ll hang in…
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Creating Connection Before You Marry
You’ve heard that “an ounce of prevention equals a pound of cure”? That’s why we designed our premarital program — to help you recognize and resolve issues and problems that could get in the way of your growing love for one another. Unlike many premarital programs, Creating Connection is based both on sound biblical principles…
Read MoreAre you drawn to the same type of people over and over, but your needs are not being met?
The following is from OC Christian Women: Do you have constant conflict in your relationships? Is your self-confidence low? Are you stuck in an unfulfilling or painful relationship, but can’t seem to do anything to change it, no matter how hard you’ve tried? By God’s design, we’re relational creatures. We rely on our parents, friends,…
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Congratulations! If you’re reading this post, you’re probably thinking about a marriage proposal or you’re already planning your wedding. Either way, we have some important information to share with you! Did you know that . . . problematic patterns of interaction develop early in a couple’s relationship, often during the dating phase? many couples believe…
Read MoreHold Me Tight
Heralded by the New York Times and Time Magazine as the couple therapy with the highest rate of success, Emotionally Focused Therapy works because it views the love relationship as an attachment bond. This idea, once controversial, is now supported by science, and has become widely popular among therapists around the world. In Hold Me…
Read MoreHappy Valentine’s Day!
If your partner has suggested counseling in the past, and you just haven’t got around to it yet, this is a great way to say I love you! A Biblically-Sound, Research-Based Approach At OC Christian Couples, we understand your commitment to your faith and to your relationship, and we’re here to help. Our programs and…
Read MorePutting Your Best Foot Forward
It makes sense. We’ve all been told to be on our best behavior in public. You know that old axiom: You only have once chance to make a good first impression. In fact, it was your ability to do just that that made it possible for you to attract your partner! After all, who would…
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