Are you having a hard time figuring out how to make your lady happy? Women are difficult to understand … not because we’re complicated. It’s because we talk in “code.” What we want and need is really very simple. The problem is that we have a hard time asking for what we want and need….
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Questions Couples Ask One Another
httpv://youtu.be/5rONvq7t_xY Dr. Debi Smith talks about the importance of understanding your partner’s bottom-line question.
Read MoreNew Seminar: Prelude to a Dance
FREE 90-Minute Seminar by Dr. Debi Smith Monday, June 18th, 7:15 pm Newport Beach, CA Are you a . . . daughter? friend? girlfriend? fiancee? wife? mother/grandmother/aunt? woman who knows a man? Have you ever . . . been puzzled by male behavior? wondered why men and boys do the things they do? wished he…
Read MoreIt All Begins With Jesus
As I continue working on my new book, I’m reminded that everything begins with Jesus. It actually ends with Him, too. The Alpha and Omega. As a “hopeful romantic,” I know how important it is for me to remember who “devised” the whole idea of romance. It happened in the Garden of Eden when God…
Read MoreA Desert Place
If you’ve been married a while, you’ve probably been in a desert place at least once. Maybe you’re there now. And it’s been a while since you and your spouse have had fun together. Life – and children – have a way of taking over. Romance seems to fade. You no longer look forward to…
Read MoreI Learn Something New Every Day
Last Saturday, we gathered with Christian couples for our pre-Valentine’s Dance Lessons at Newsong Church. As always, there was a lot of laughter as couples tried out their newly developing skills on the dance floor. And there were some really romantic moments, too, as they snuggled together during the final waltz of the day. And…
Read MoreLet Your Man Be Your Hero
Your man wants to be your hero – on Valentine’s and always. God designed him with an innate desire to protect you, to guide you, and to hold you – to make you happy – if you’ll only let him. He won’t do it perfectly. So you will need to let go of your tendency…
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