Mark’s experience was quite different than Cathy’s. (For Cathy’s story, please read After the Honeymoon.) Although their honeymoon had been totally amazing, he was glad to be home from Paris. For years, one of his favorite end-of-the-day routines had been to grab a quick snack and head to the bedroom for some late-night TV. When…
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This one’s for the boys!
Are you having a hard time figuring out how to make your lady happy? Women are difficult to understand … not because we’re complicated. It’s because we talk in “code.” What we want and need is really very simple. The problem is that we have a hard time asking for what we want and need….
Read MoreAre Women More Complicated Than Men?
So many couples who are experiencing relationship problems seem to need an interpreter. In fact, what I mostly do during a couple’s counseling session is to to translate “what he just said” into words that she can understand, and then translate “what she just said” into words that he can understand. So on the surface,…
Read MoreMen Are Complicated
Women don’t understand how a man thinks, what he feels, and why he behaves the way he does. Men are complicated because there is no explanation for them … at least not one that he can offer. In other words, women are confused about men. Men are confused about themselves … sometimes. But mostly, they…
Read MoreThe Evolution of the Victorian Dancing Frog
This morning I was thinking about how much my life has changed in the last 13 months. On June 4, 2011, I presented my first public seminar on the psychology of men. I called it “The Princess & the Frog.” The very next day I met Fred Judkins, who since has taught me so much…
Read MoreWhat Every Woman Needs to Know About Men
What women are saying about this free seminar … Marriage – like dancing – is so much sweeter when both partners are in sync. Thank you, Dr. Debi, for providing a fun, informative evening filled with insight into the men in our lives and ways we can improve our relationships. I only wish I had…
Read MoreWho’s more complicated, a man or a woman?
httpv://youtu.be/1iu7jP-VRI4 Dr. Debi Smith talks about the difficulties inherent in understanding what men and women need from one another.
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