When you think of your partner, do you dwell on his/her faults? Or do you focus your thoughts on how blessed your are to have him/her in your life? No person is all bad. Each of us carries the seeds of goodness within us. We are all created in the image of God. Let your thoughts be about the goodness within your mate today.
Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things. ~ Philippians 4:8