Though I know that we meet ev’ry night and we couldn’t have changed since the last time, to my joy and delight, it’s a new kind of love at first sight. Though it’s you and it’s I all the time ev’ry meeting’s a marvelous pastime. You’re increasingly sweet, so whenever we happen to meet I…
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I could have danced all night!
There’s nothing more delightful than dancing with a perfect partner. A man who knows how to lead (gently and confidently) dancing with a woman who loves to follow him (without losing who she is) is a joy to behold. You are invited to join Dr. Debi on Monday, Seotenber 17th, in Newport Beach for a…
Read MoreIt’s almost here!
September 17th’s Fr*ee Prelude to a Dance seminar in Newport Beach currently has three open seats. So forward this message to your friends now! Single, dating, engaged, or married . . . We have something for the “Hopeful Romantic” in everyone! Register for all or part of the workshop! Dance With Me by Dr. Debi…
Read MoreAn Invitation
If you think about it, the phrase “dance with me” is actually an invitation – a sweet request – to join together in the creation of something beautiful as a couple. These words are neither to be uttered in a demanding tone, nor with expectations that you merely do as I say. Both the request…
Read MoreExciting News!
ATTENTION!!! Thanks to the unleashed generosity of two very amazing Christian couples who have joined us in support of healthy relationships, we are reducing the cost of Dance With Me workshops on September 29 at Vanguard University! Single, dating, engaged, married … We have something for the “Hopeful Romantic” in everyone! Just Follow My Lead…
Read MoreNeedy or Openly Vulnerable?
Neediness gets such a bum rap. As one of my mentors told me, “To say that someone is too needy is like saying they are too human.” He was right. We are all needy. We cannot survive very long without one another … or a facsimile thereof. Do you remember “Wilson,” Tom Hanks’s volleyball friend…
Read MoreNever Leave Your Partner Behind
In the movie Fireproof, the statement “Never leave your partner behind” was a motto of the Fire Department. Then Kirk Cameron’s character applied that to his marriage. When I refer to a couple as “partners” (and to the line in the movie) during counseling, I am thinking of the following definition. How many of the…
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