by Dr. Debi Smith On the surface, it seems like poor communication is the problem. But like so many other things in life, there’s more to it than that. The lack of connection and understanding run deeper than mere word-choice. There are some fundamental biological and social differences that lead to very different world views…
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Different Worldviews
No, Mark and Cathy are not from different planets. However, their biological differences (nature) and the impact of their respective life experiences (nurture) have resulted in very different ways of looking at the world … and at their relationships. It’s what you say that counts: Women were taught to talk openly about their feelings when…
Read MoreThe Value of Testosterone
About a month ago, I posted a video about Women and Anger. I said that women are afraid of men’s anger. In fact, women are afraid a lot of the time. Most men are surprised to hear that we fear for our physical safety on a daily basis. If you doubt that, just ask your…
Read MoreLet Your Man Be Your Hero
Your man wants to be your hero – on Valentine’s and always. God designed him with an innate desire to protect you, to guide you, and to hold you – to make you happy – if you’ll only let him. He won’t do it perfectly. So you will need to let go of your tendency…
Read MoreLive this Saturday: The Romance of the Dance
Listen to the woman’s point of view from Dr. Debi Smith online as she shares with us a woman’s desire and participation in making life a beautiful dance. Dr. Smith is a California Licensed Psychologist, experienced Couples Therapist, and expert in the Psychology of Men and Relationships. NOTE: Replays of our Webcasts are also available…
Read MorePREPARE/ENRICH: The Couple Checkup
Based on an unprecedented national survey of 50,000 marriages, The Couple Checkup presents the principles for creating a successful couple relationship. The free online profile includes fifteen to twenty categories that are customized based on the relationship stage-whether dating, engaged, or married-the age, and whether or not children are involved. The book also includes the…
Read MoreStress Levels Are at an All-Time High
Things are tough throughout America right now. In the midst of it all, you think of your mate and wonder… “Can I count on her?” “Why won’t he talk about what’s wrong?” If you aren’t getting the right answer — if you aren’t finding comfort and encouragement in one another — you don’t have to…
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