At one time or another, we hurt the ones we love – whether we mean to or not. Sometimes we’re just being selfish – totally self-absorbed, and we don’t even realize the level of pain our actions will cause for our spouses. Whatever the reason, it simply shouldn’t happen – in a perfect world. But…
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Help Couples Recover from Infidelity
Meet Pastor Dave Carder, author and specialist in helping couples understand and recover from infidelity. He will be doing a training for pastors and counselors this Friday, November 4th in Irvine. Details and registration are linked below. httpv://youtu.be/UFU11_nm2kc November 4, 2011 (Friday) Torn Asunder: A Therapeutic Model for Couple Recovery From Infidelity Psychologists or BBS:…
Read MoreProtecting Your Marriage
Our friend Dave Carder (author, pastor, counselor) shares insights on several risk factors for infidelity.
Read MoreRecovering from an Extramarital Affair
I know how painful extramarital affairs are for the one who’s been betrayed. Finding out that your spouse has been with someone else is like getting punched repeatedly in the stomach until things have been resolved. With or without your mate’s repentance and cooperation, recovery is not an easy process. I also know how painful…
Read MoreInfidelity doesn’t have to ruin your life—or your marriage
If you have been devastated by your husband’s sexual betrayal—whether an isolated incident or a long-term pattern of addiction—you need to know you don’t have to live as a victim. If you choose to stay in your marriage, you have options other than punishing, tolerating, or ignoring your spouse; in fact, extraordinary growth awaits a…
Read MoreQ & A With Dave Carder
Q. I just listen to Midday Connection program on Moody Radio where you were speaking about infidelity. I have a question. How do you break from the memory of your “puppy love”? I am currently unhappily married. And still dream, and think of my boyfriend from where I was 12. It was a sweet time no sex involved. I…
Read MoreNever Say Never
Because just when you think your marriage is safe from adultery is when you may be the most vulnerable. Now, with eye-opening stories, clinical insights, and up-to-date data, Dave Carder reveals what adulterers learned the hard way — and want the rest of us to know. For example, every spouse has a “Dangerous Partner Profile”…
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