httpv://youtu.be/1iu7jP-VRI4 Dr. Debi Smith talks about the difficulties inherent in understanding what men and women need from one another.
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Women are confused about men. Men are confused about themselves … sometimes. But mostly, they operate by very different rules than women do. And one of those “rules” says that there’s no need to explain the obvious. Well, what’s obvious to a man is utterly confusing to a woman. And women make no sense at…
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Do you disagree about . . . sex? work? money? leisure time? your parents? how to raise the kids? where to go on vacation? Do all your arguments sound like the same old song, just a different verse? You’re not alone. Many couples have the same arguments over and over again. It’s exhausting. This negative…
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Dealing With Conflict Before they realize what’s happened to them, many couples develop an unhealthy cycle of interactions including criticism, stonewalling, defensiveness, and/or contempt. Even so, Dr. John Gottman’s research found that 83% of newlyweds who criticized, stonewalled, and/or made defensive attacks were able to stabilize their marriages over time if they learned how to…
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